Nearly everyone who works with me will ask at some point ‘How do you explain what you do?’ Because when you’re working with me, what I’m doing isn’t the focus. You are. You hold the key.
The reason that question is so popular is because what I’m doing to get your results is unfathomable. And that’s why I’m hired.
I dreamt about the Wizard of Oz last night. And this is as good as any metaphor for what I perceive when I work with someone. Remember Dorothy, the yellow brick road, ‘there’s no place like home’ and the characters who were missing something about themselves that the great Oz was going to fix. This narrative is the one you want to see. The one that influences and contributes to every thought you have, decision you make and action you take. The story you’re telling yourself is untrue. Or you’d be getting the results you want in all areas of your life with no need to ‘manage’ or settle for less.
If Dorothy was my client, here’s the truth: You’re not Dorothy. You may think you are, but you’re mistaken. You might dream of a different kind of world. But you never have been or are lost. You know exactly where you are and what you’re doing, saying and being, at all times. There is no one yellow brick road to where you’re headed. There are multiple, infinite possibilities that are uncountable. The search for the Great Oz? Futile. No-one is ever missing something about themselves that can ever be fixed by someone or something outside themselves. You have all the resources you’ll ever require, need or want. Resources don’t lay outside of you. Ever.
I watched that movie a lot as a kid. It doesn’t mean I buy a single thing about it as reality now. I update my client’s psyche. What fairy story are you walking around in, never questioning because it’s ‘just the way it is’. Nothing is the way it is, unless you decide it.
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